WHAT IS IN YOUR CUP?

Previous reflections have considered if your cup is half full or half empty, but we overlooked thinking about the contents of your cup. So, what might your cup contain? Is it full of joy, disappointments, hope or sadness ??

When I imagine my cup’s contents, it is like a multi-layered pastry or rainbow. The foundation layer is gratitude, as I try to be grateful for all the blessing and good fortune I have received. This gratitude then sparks a profound sense of awe and wonder as I look at God’s creation and the natural beauty I am surrounded by, if only I pause to look and listen. The next layer is joy and amusement as I remember the (mis)adventures and encounters that I have experienced and savour them. The next layer is love and hope; the kindness and fulfillment that abound when I risk letting go and being in the moment. There are more layers, but like the bottom, gratitude is also on the top level.

I try to minimize the negative or unhelpful feelings in my cup. These sentiments are there, and I am aware of them, but I try to ensure that they do not overwhelm or undermine my wellbeing.

I know that your cup is different to mine, and there is no correct or better cup. But what is refreshing is to speculate what is in your cup that makes it yours, unique to you. Focusing on your life and what grounds and defines it is sobering. Challenging yourself to prioritize your emotional wellbeing is constructive and insightful. Are negative feelings defining your wellbeing? Are your life experiences a turbulent mixture of wonderful and unfortunate circumstances, just swirling about? Does that need some sorting out and organizing?

A cup that is structured around helpful, hopeful and joyful ingredients is bound to be better for your wellbeing. So, what is in your cup? Make your cup work for you.

Reflection Source: www.Smallercup.org

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